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2025-09-23 THE SIN OF FAVORITISM

Embrace Mercy: 

Finding Your Place at God's Table

Ever felt like you were left standing in the back while others were ushered to the front? Imagine walking into a restaurant, eager for a meal, only to be told there's a long wait. Then, someone more "important" walks in and is immediately seated. That sting of being overlooked is what favoritism feels like. But here's the good news: in God's kingdom, there's no such thing as favoritism—only family.

The Sin of Favoritism: A Lesson from James

In the book of James, we find a powerful message about the sin of favoritism. James 2:1-13 challenges us to reflect on how we treat others, especially within the church. Imagine two people walking into a worship service. One is dressed in fine clothes, the other in shabby attire. Who do we instinctively welcome more warmly? James warns us that showing preference based on appearance or status contradicts our faith in Jesus Christ.

Favoritism isn't just bad manners; it's a serious sin that devalues what God values. Every person is made in the image of God, and when we show favoritism, we ignore how God operates—looking at the heart rather than outward appearances. It also denies how God has saved us, not by our status or wealth, but by grace through faith.

Mercy Triumphs Over Judgment

James reminds us that in God's kingdom, there are no favorites, only family. Mercy pulls out a seat for everyone at the table. This is a call to action for believers to examine their hearts and lay down any prejudices before the cross. We are to love our neighbors as ourselves, fulfilling the royal law given by the King.

Favoritism not only contradicts our faith but also corrupts our fellowship and cancels our witness. It divides what God has united and poisons the church's community. Instead, we are called to let mercy triumph over judgment. A merciless Christianity is no Christianity at all. Our words and actions should reflect the mercy we've received from God.

Practical Steps to Embrace Mercy

So, how can we live out this message? Here are a few practical steps:

  1. Examine Your Heart: Reflect on where you might be tempted to show favoritism. Are there areas in your life where you favor the powerful over the powerless or the familiar over the unfamiliar?

  2. Extend Mercy: Make a conscious effort to welcome and love those who might be overlooked. Sit with someone new at church, speak to someone you don't know, and extend mercy where judgment once ruled.

  3. Reflect on God's Mercy: Remember that you were not saved because of your impressive resume but because of Jesus' sacrifice. Let this truth guide how you treat others.

A Call to Action

As you go about your week, consider how you can let mercy triumph in your life. Who is the next person you will show mercy to? If you've never received mercy from Jesus, why not today? God's kingdom is open to all, and He invites you to take a seat at His table.

Prayer: Heavenly Father, thank You for Your boundless mercy and grace. Help us to reflect Your love and mercy in our interactions with others. May we see each person as You see them, and may our actions and words be a testament to Your love. In Jesus' name, Amen.

In God's kingdom, there's always a place for you. Embrace His mercy and extend it to others, knowing that you are part of a family where everyone is welcome.

Posted by David Hopkins with